Family Therapy
Therapy for the Entire Family
The clinicians at 3-C Family Services believe that individuals do not live
in a vacuum and that the family within which they live can help to support
change by also making changes. Therapists can work with parents on parenting
issues, such as creating closer emotional relationships with children and
establishing effective limits for children. Parents can work with their therapist
to figure out how to establish realistic and appropriate expectations, and
support parents as they teach children how to meet such expectations. Families
can learn how to effectively communicate feelings using active listening
and "I messages", which provides opportunities for self-expression
and helps the family work together to find alternatives.
Often times parents find the task of balancing the roles of disciplinarian
and nurturer to be a difficult one. Your therapist can support your family
by helping to define roles in the family system while teaching families how
to deal with the changes that occur in roles as family members progress through
developmental stages. Many families struggle with relationship problems,
both within and outside of the family system. Sibling rivalry, while common,
can be a debilitating problem and create unhealthy alliances among family
members. As children grow, they experience new relationships outside of the
family such as with peers, teachers, and intimate relationships. Negotiating
appropriate expectations around these relationships and helping children
learn what to expect and what interaction style fits with their personality
as well as family expectations can sometimes prove to be a source of contention
among families.
Family therapy can also help families as they deal with situational concerns,
such as divorce, remarriage, stepfamilies, abuse/violence, moving, and other
life transitions. A family therapist can help families work together in dealing
with mental health concerns such as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder,
schizophrenia, conduct disorder, ADHD, and Autism.